For some families, sports are just a pastime, but for others, they’re a way of life. Parents often have goals for their children even before they are born. Maybe your plan is to raise an all-star athlete who brings the family fame and fortune. Reality can get in the way of these plans, especially if your child is just not into the things you like. If your future athlete isn’t a fan of team sports, here’s what you can do:
Talk to Your Child About It
See if you can figure out why they don’t like team sports. Keep in mind that not liking your favorite sport doesn’t necessarily mean they’ve counted sports out entirely. Maybe the first one they picked was the wrong one. Perhaps the coach is too aggressive for their tastes. In some cases, children can dislike sports because they feel too much pressure to perform when being watched by parents, peers, coaches and the other team. There are any number of reasons why your child may not like playing sports, and it’s important to get to the core of the issue before taking the next step.
Look Into Individual Sports
Some children like sports but are put off by the team aspect. Finding their place on a team hasn’t worked out for them, and they’d rather compete on their own. Fortunately, there are plenty of options that can still keep your kid just as active! A strong swimmer can go into competitive swimming. Consider trying golf or cross country if your child enjoys competing at a more relaxed pace. If your child is looking for something more glamorous but still just as competitive as any other sport, gymnastics or baton twirling may be more their speed. While these sports have teams and collaborative training, competing is often an isolated thing.
Consider Looking Beyond Sports
No matter how invested you are in getting your child to enjoy sports, some children simply do not like them. If you’ve tried everything and your all-star isn’t interested in dominating on the court, on the field or in the pool, look beyond sports. Hiking can get your child moving and give the family an opportunity to explore beautiful new places. Practicing yoga or martial arts may help your child find their center with mindful movements. Maybe your child is less of a runner and more of a dancer — don’t worry, there’s still just as much exercise involved on and behind the stage.
Support Your Child’s Choices
Whatever path your child takes, they’ll be looking to you for support. Make sure to be their cheerleader (even if they choose to be a cheerleader!). Stay by their side, and encourage them to be the best they can be. When they know their parents have their back, they’ll be able to accomplish great things.
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